Co-parenting can be a complicated arrangement. As such, having a clear, well-structured parenting plan is wise. When a parenting plan is drafted in ways that are thoughtful, focused and forward-looking, they can help to ensure that both parents and children can navigate their post-separation landscape far more successfully than they otherwise might.
In Indiana, co-parents have the flexibility to formalize a wide range of arrangements within a parenting plan, provided these arrangements align with the best interests of their child. What exactly can be included in a parenting plan, and how can it benefit both parents and children? While there is no “one-size-fits-all” answer to these questions, the following can serve as an informed starting point for you and your child’s other parent, if you’re going your separate ways.
Custody and parenting time arrangements
One of the most consequential inclusions in a parenting plan is a family’s custody arrangement. Co-parents can agree on joint legal custody, where both parents share decision-making responsibilities, or one parent may have sole legal custody. A parenting plan should also specify a family’s physical custody arrangement, whether it’s joint or sole, and outline a parenting time schedule so that expectations are clear and everyone can plan accordingly.
Financial responsibilities
While child support is generally determined by Indiana’s child support guidelines, co-parents can address additional financial arrangements in their parenting plan. For example, they may detail agreements on how to handle additional expenses not covered by standard child support, such as extracurricular activities, medical costs or education expenses. Co-parents can also agree on how to share the costs of significant purchases, like a car for a teenager or college tuition. Clearly outlining these financial responsibilities can help prevent future disputes and better ensure that both parents contribute fairly to their child’s upbringing.
Special considerations and contingencies
Every family is unique. Thankfully, parenting plans can be structured to address specific needs or concerns. For example, parents of a child with special needs might include arrangements for therapy sessions, medical appointments or special education services. A plan can also include contingencies for changes in circumstances, such as a parent relocating, losing a job or experiencing a health crisis.
By addressing any number of concerns proactively, co-parents can avoid misunderstandings and better ensure that their parenting plan remains effective over time.